Honest Reflections

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“See a need, meet a need,” a common phrase in church circles, aptly sums up today’s verse. When we can do something for someone, we should. Many times in life, when people go through difficult circumstances, we can’t do anything physically, but at the very least, we can pray.

Doing good things for other people happens in many different ways. From opening the door for someone to cooking a meal for a family in need, it typically doesn’t take much effort on our part, but it has a significant impact on the receiver of the deed.

My latest book, “Random Acts of Kindness:  40-Day Challenge,” focuses on doing good deeds. In addition to the book, I created a companion jar filled with scrolls containing random acts of kindness ideas for 40 days, designed to help people spread good in the world.

At my last book signing, I met an aunt who lost her niece a year ago in a tragic car accident. As the first anniversary approaches, the young girl’s mom wants to commemorate the day by doing random acts of kindness. Although I can do nothing to bring her niece back, I gave her aunt my book and the companion jar to help them honor her life the way her mom wants to do.

We never know who the Lord will put before us, or what good we can do for them. However, we can always find a way to do something uplifting and encouraging for them, whether it’s buying them lunch or giving them a book. Seeking God’s will for our lives starts with loving Him and others. When we obey His commandment, we’ll find our purpose. And when we see a need, we will meet it.

Journal Question:

How have people done good for you?

In what ways have you lived out today’s verse?

How can you apply “See a need, meet a need” to your life?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for meeting our needs and giving us blessings we can share with others. As we go about our days, please help us see the needs of others and meet them to the best of our ability. As we receive Your blessings, let them flow freely from us to others.

IJNIP. Amen

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Who doesn’t want a straight path to walk? Visiting Watkins Glen State Park in upstate New York, we traversed 800 stone steps on the Gorge Trail, the closest to Glen Creek, which creates the 19 breathtaking waterfalls for visitors to view. Twisting and turning, we had to pay attention to prevent slipping and falling on the trail.

Straight paths with no grade make hiking so much easier. Life’s twists and turns can take our breath away as quickly as a beautiful waterfall. Trust in the Lord helps us navigate circumstances with clear direction and divine guidance, allowing us to avoid pitfalls that could waylay our journey.

Instead of relying on our limited understanding of the world around us, we can lean into the Savior and trust His knowledge. Giving God our heart allows Him to go before us, straightening our paths and giving us victory in Him. We don’t have to know the itinerary; we can trust the travel agent to get us to our destination as efficiently and easily as possible.

As you begin your day, ask the Lord to straighten out your path. Permit Him to take you where He wants you to go. Admit you don’t understand everything and rely on His perspective to lead you. In all things, trust the Savior and let Him guide your way.

Journal Question:

Describe a path you walked that challenged you.

How would you rate your level of trust in God?

What path do you need the Lord to clear for you today?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for knowing the direction You want us to travel and preparing the path for us to follow. Please help us trust You completely, acknowledging Your ways and allowing You to lead us to our destiny.

IJNIP. Amen

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God’s word protects us from ourselves. We think of enemies as those outside of us that would do us harm. But, in truth, the decisions we make and actions we take often cause us more pain than anyone else. By following the Lord’s commands, we’ll find, He truly does have our best interest at heart.

“Because I told you so,” said my mother more times than I can remember. As a child, when she gave me directions, I often replied with one word, “Why?” Mom’s five-word response didn’t satisfy my curiosity, so I would do what she told me not to do, and end up regretting it.

Like the time mom told me not to let any pilots in my room when I became a flight attendant. If I had followed that advice, I would have saved myself a lot of heartache. But I did learn lessons I haven’t forgotten and didn’t repeat the mistake. And I wish I had listened to my mother.

Like I wish I had listened to God about His direction for relationships. Eventually, I did wise up and begin following the Lord and my mother’s advice, but only after I caused myself harm, leaving scars from the battles I fought because I didn’t listen.

Save yourself heartache and follow the Lord’s commands. You will quickly learn that He’s helping you, not hurting you. By applying God’s principles to your life, you will become more like Jesus, living abundantly in His love, and not suffering the self-inflicted wounds of poor decisions.

God will lengthen your days, adding not only years to your life, but also peace to it. Trust in Him, remember His commands, and enjoy life to the fullest in Christ.

Journal Questions:

What parental advice do you wish you had followed?

Do you tend to follow rules or break them?

What commandment of God’s do you have the hardest time obeying?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for giving us directions for life. Please help us write them on our hearts, not forgetting them, adding peace and years to our lives. Let us live in Your love, basking in Your blessings as we follow You.

IJNIP. Amen

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Along the Alleghany River in Pennsylvania runs the 51-mile Redbank Valley Trail. Maintained by volunteers, the non-motorized, 4-season trail has scenic beauty and connections to other trails. Continuously growing and connecting to other bikeways, the wide path features easy-to-follow markings, making it easy to traverse.

Some paths take more effort. Following the path of righteousness, which begins by placing our faith in Jesus, requires a partnership with the Savior. Unlike the Redbank Valley Trail, which provides a clear view of the path ahead, we don’t always know what our next steps will look like following Jesus.

Like a dense fog covering the Redbank Trail, we can’t see more than a foot ahead and must trust God to show us which way we should step. Obeying the Lord’s commands helps us find a sure footing. Even if we can’t see the path, we can trust God for solid ground.

A few years ago, when my mother had an unexpected illness, it took my entire family by surprise. Navigating the raw emotions that came to the surface made me feel directionless. Realizing I had no control over the situation, I didn’t know what to do. My prayer became, “God, show me the next step.” He always did, and in the process deepened my trust in Him and drew me closer to the Savior.

Ever since that season, I have made it a common practice to ask the Lord to direct my steps. Allowing the Savior to guide me helps me find the path of righteousness, leading to a more abundant life than I ever imagined.

Ask God to give you direction. Allow the Lord to illuminate your path, showing you one step at a time where He wants you to go. Let the adventure begin!

Journal Question:

How has God directed your steps?

How would you define the path of righteousness?

What area do you need the most guidance in today?

 Prayer:

Lord, thank You for giving us a mission here on Earth. Please show us the direction You want us to go, and give us the steps You want us to take. Let us not miss a thing as we follow You wholeheartedly.

IJNIP. Amen

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Developing the ability to discern right from wrong happens when we seek God’s ways and learn His commands. As we apply biblical principles to our lives, we will gain wisdom and knowledge that will help us discern and understand which path to take.

For instance, God tells us in Genesis that we bear His image, so how we act in society reflects the Lord to others. When you think about the magnitude of what it means to represent the Lord with our word and deed, it will change how you act.

When our camping neighbor aired their grievances with me about Ruby’s barking, I heard my therapist’s voice say, “How did your actions bear God’s image?” One question changed my behavior; instead of getting irritated and saying something I would regret, I apologized.

Because I follow Jesus and accept Godly advice, I have developed discernment and understanding that helps me accept responsibility for my part in a situation and guards me from unnecessary conflict and strife. Instead of letting my human emotions lead me down the path of turmoil, I follow Christ down the path of peace.

We can’t control what other people do, but we can control our actions. The more we apply God’s word to our lives, the more we will experience His divine joy and peace that we can find no other way. Let the Lord’s ways give you discernment and understanding that will guard you from the pains of this world.

Journal Question:

When has applying God’s word to a situation given you divine discernment?

How can you more readily submit your life to God’s ways?

How does understanding help you avoid trouble?

 Prayer:

Lord, thank You for giving us divine discernment and understanding. Please help us turn to You first when confronted with an issue, seeking Your wisdom in how to deal with our circumstances. Let us bear Your image well, glorifying You in all we do.

IJNIP.

Amen

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Reading through the Bible in a year, I began the book of Job this morning. In the first two chapters, Satan slithers his way into God’s presence and has a conversation about the Lord’s loyal servant, which ends with God granting the devil permission to test Job.

When Job receives the news that he’s lost everything, including his ten children, he rips his clothes, drops to his knees, and worships God.

“Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised.”

Job 1:21

Job does not know about the heavenly conversation or why this happened. In the following 37 chapters, Job hears nothing from God, but a great deal from his three friends, who attempt to figure out why these tragedies have occurred. None of their theories comes close to the truth.

When God begins to speak, He asks Job questions that no man can answer. As Creator of the world, only the Lord holds its secrets and the knowledge of why things happen the way they do.

“Shall a faultfinder contend with the Almighty? He who argues with God, let him answer it.”

Job 40:2

Job learned through his trials that God has knowledge and wisdom we can’t understand. The Lord reveals to us what He wants and gives us the knowledge and wisdom we need, but we still won’t understand all the universe’s secrets. Only when we enter our eternal resting place will God reveal the mysteries of creation.

Until then, seek the Lord for His knowledge and wisdom. When you don’t understand, trust as Job did, that God’s ways far outweigh ours.

Journal Question:

When have you questioned God’s reasoning?

In what way have you accepted God’s sovereignty?

How can you seek wisdom and knowledge from the Lord today?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for creating the wonderful, mysterious world in which we live today. Please help us accept that we will not understand everything on this side of heaven. Give us the knowledge and wisdom we need to fulfill our purpose.

IJNIP.

Amen

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Birds have good eyesight and can see traps, but it doesn’t mean they will avoid them. Factors such as the type of trap, the bait used, their habits, and food motivation all play a role in determining the outcome. Essentially, if the bird wants the food in the trap bad enough, it will go for it and get caught in the snare they can see.

We do the same thing, for instance, with credit card debt. Everyone knows banks charge high interest rates on credit cards, counting on people not paying them off each month. The average American carries over $6,000 of debt from month to month. With an average interest rate of 21.99% on credit cards, that equals over $1,300 a year in interest paid to the bank, providing easy income for financial institutions.

Like birds, we forget the trap when we see the shiny new object we can’t live without and will undoubtedly bring us joy. However, the thrill we get from the purchase doesn’t last long, especially when the bill comes. Thankfully, God provides us with wise advice on how to resist temptation and avoid falling into the trap.

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

1 Corinthians 10:13

Beware of traps and don’t let the bait lure you into the snare. Lean into the Lord and let Him help you avoid the obvious, so you don’t get caught in traps.

Journal Question:

What traps seem apparent to you?

What strategy do you use to avoid traps?

When have you gotten caught in an obvious trap?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for giving eyes to see the traps before us. Please help us avoid the obvious snares, not letting our greed get us into trouble. Give us victory over temptation and the traps that come with it.

IJNIP.

Amen

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“If you’d only listen to me, you wouldn’t get into so much trouble!

I hear my mother’s exasperated voice in my head more now than ever. Today marks 93 years since she entered this world, and the eleventh birthday she’s celebrated in heaven. Oh, how I miss her wisdom in my life.

No one loved me as much as my mom did. I understand more now than ever how she tried to help me avoid the pitfalls of life with her knowledge of Biblical wisdom. But I didn’t listen, thinking I knew better than my mother, I did things my way, and suffered the consequences.

Teaching children starts at home. My parents did their best to raise us according to the Lord. On Sunday mornings, you could find the Minicks sitting in the back row of the Tidal Presbyterian Church. Mom and Dad made us observe the Sabbath, not allowed to do any work. They instilled the fear of God in us, teaching us to respect Him and follow His ways.

But I didn’t listen very well, always trying to bend the rules, causing my parents turmoil. Oh, how I wish I’d listened better; it would have saved me much suffering. Children have a way of testing boundaries and learning the hard way.

However, when kids start their adult journey, parents get more phone calls than ever for advice. Suddenly, we realize that maybe they do know a thing or two, and maybe we should listen. Having wise parents who follow the Lord leads to wise advice for the trials we face. A garland to adorn our head and a chain to wear around our neck, parental advice, given with love, helps us persevere through life’s journey.

Journal Question:

What advice do you wish you had followed from your parents?

Write about the most important lesson you learned from your parents.

What trouble has parental advice helped you avoid?

Prayer:

Lord,

Thank You for our parents who did their best to raise us according to Your will. Help us forgive them for their imperfections and accept their wisdom. Let us heed their advice and apply it to our lives.

IJNIP

Amen

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To gain wisdom, one must first respect God. As a child, when my parents gave me instructions, I didn’t always understand why, and I would question them. “Why do I have to do that?”

“Because I said so!”

Their typical response just made me mad and didn’t help me understand anything. But as I grew and started rebelling, I learned lessons the hard way. I came to realize they had my best interests at heart and didn’t want me to suffer pain.

In the same way, I came to respect God’s word the more I applied it to my life. After trying to live life my way and finding myself in a pit, I realized my approach didn’t work. And so, I picked one of God’s laws and began living by it: no sex before marriage.

And boy did God teach me, and quickly, the benefit of not giving myself away to someone who didn’t care for me and had my best interest at heart. I learned that applying the Lord’s commands to my life protected me from myself and the poor decisions I made.

And that’s how I began to respect the Lord, by applying His word to my life and reaping the benefits of obedience to Him. God blesses us when we do what He wants, seeking His will above our own. You must obey to realize the truth of those words.

We don’t need to know the “why” behind God’s commands to reap the benefits of them. Respecting the Lord with reverential fear leads us down the path of wisdom, right living, and peace that surpasses all understanding.

Journal Questions:

What kind of respect do you have for God?

What makes you question God’s commands?

What one command can you apply to your life today?

Prayer:

Lord,

Thank You for caring about us and giving us guidelines to help us navigate through life in this world. Please help us develop a reverential fear for You and discover the path to wisdom that we find in Your word. Bless our efforts, guide our steps, and help us live life to the fullest.

IJNIP.

Amen

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We live in a world flooded with information but starving for wisdom. We have endless access to knowledge, opinions, and advice—yet we still often find ourselves lost when making decisions, managing relationships, or navigating challenges.

That’s where the Book of Proverbs can help us.

Through Proverbs, God invites us to live wisely. Written mainly by King Solomon, the wisest man to ever live (apart from Christ), this collection of short, powerful sayings packed with practical insights for everyday life. Whether you’re navigating friendships, work, finances, or faith, Proverbs offers timeless truths that remain relevant today.

“Wise Up” takes you on a  90-day devotional journey through the book of Proverbs. Each day, you’ll reflect on a verse or passage, explore its meaning, and consider how to apply it to your life. Consider these truths God’s guideposts for living well.

You don’t need a theology degree or a perfect past to gain wisdom, just a teachable heart and a few minutes a day. Let Proverbs read you, shape you, and lead you into a wiser, fuller life.

So grab a journal, a pen, and an open heart—and let’s wise up together.