Author: Beth Morrison

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As a child, I had a stuffed koala bear I named Koalie. He became my protector. I slept with him every night and childishly believed he would keep the bad dreams away. For a time, I carried that little brown bear everywhere and refused to let him out of my sight. Eventually, though, I outgrew my stuffed friend and set Koalie aside like so many other childhood toys.

The psalmist warns us about the sin we cherish. Much like I once clung to Koalie for security, we can hold on to our old ways because they make us feel safe or comfortable. Yet when we refuse to repent of sin, we place a barrier between ourselves and God. When we approach the Lord, He desires that we come with a contrite heart. If we cling to something we know we shouldn’t do and refuse to surrender it, our fellowship with Him suffers.

In my own life, I wrestled with the sin of anger. For years, I used anger as a form of protection, believing it shielded me from the world’s attacks. Because it made me feel strong, I held onto it. But as I confronted the sinful nature of my actions, the Lord revealed the deeper roots of that anger. I began the hard work of digging it out of my heart and replacing it with His love. My anger had closed my eyes to the truth and often led me into further sin. Only when I released it did I begin to experience a deeper connection with the Lord.

God does not ignore imperfect people—we all have faults. But when we knowingly cling to sin and resist His correction, it creates a barrier in our relationship with Him. My anger once stood between the Savior and me. When I finally repented and began the work of change, my relationship with the Lord grew stronger.

Struggling with sin differs from intentionally holding onto it. Every believer stumbles at times, yet still desires to walk with God. Cherishing sin, however, means protecting it rather than surrendering it. When we refuse to give an area of our lives to the Lord, we keep Him at a distance. Only through surrender can we experience a fuller, deeper relationship with our Creator.

When God convicts us of sin, the sooner we repent, the closer we will walk with Him. Invite Him to search your heart, reveal the areas you need to surrender, and lead you into a life that reflects His truth and love.

Journal Questions:

Do you have a sin you cherish?

Why don’t you want to surrender certain areas of your life to God?

How can you draw closer to the Lord today?

Application:

Confess any known sin immediately.

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On my first day as a flight attendant, we got fitted for our uniforms. Before I ever stepped onto an airplane, they taught me how to dress. The company required certain pieces—skirts, pants, blouses, and jackets. We also had optional items to choose from: a winter coat, a dress, extra blouses, and other accessories.

By the end of that day, I knew exactly what the company expected me to wear and how to present myself. They didn’t just instruct us on our uniforms; they taught us how to apply our makeup so that we reflected the image the company wanted to present to the world.

In Paul’s letter to the Colossians, he explains how believers should dress for Jesus. Just as the airline had a dress code for its employees, Christ calls His followers to clothe themselves with His virtues: compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. When we embody these qualities, we represent God’s Son and help others come to know the Savior. Not accidental responses—intentional choices.

Just as I knew what my employer expected when I dressed for work as a flight attendant, Paul reminds us what God expects His followers to wear.

In addition to these virtues, we must forgive as Christ forgave us—fully and completely. We do not forgive because the offender deserves it, but because we have received undeserved forgiveness from Jesus. Given such a gift, He asks us to extend it to others.

Love holds the whole outfit together; the belt that completes the garment. Without love, kindness becomes shallow, humility becomes performance, and patience quickly fades. The motivation of our hearts determines our actions. When we allow the Holy Spirit to fill our inner being, we begin to respond as Jesus did, leaving behind the patterns of our old life. Love unites us and helps us reflect the Savior in ways that draw others toward His light.

As we live this way, the peace of Christ begins to rule in our hearts. People will recognize us by that peace as we put His teachings into practice. Our lives become a beacon in a dark world as we seek to live in harmony with others. Clothing ourselves with Christ’s virtues expresses divine love, promotes peace in our relationships, and cultivates gratitude that keeps our hearts tender and focused on God’s goodness.

Just as we get dressed each day, we can choose to put on our spiritual clothes. Put on compassion like a coat. Wear kindness like a shirt. Walk in the shoes of humility and fasten everything together with love. Let peace guide your steps and gratitude fill your heart.

In Christ, we have everything we need to live an abundant life and to love others well.

Journal Questions:

How can compassion replace resentment?

What helps you dress in these attributes?

What does living at peace look like in your life?

Application:

Perform one unexpected act of kindness.

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Nothing sums up our old life before Jesus and the new life we find in Him better than these two verses. Paul lists the attributes that the Ephesians, and we, need to release: bitterness, rage, anger, brawling, slander, and every form of malice. All these emotions ruin relationships. Bitterness hardens the heart. Wrath and anger explode, causing irreparable damage. Brawling and slander cause quarreling and speaking badly about other people. And malice desires to see someone harmed or fall.

Paul doesn’t just tell us to manage these attributes; he tells us to put them away. In other words, we must remove these emotions from our hearts. We can’t rid ourselves of these things without the help of Christ. In the old way of life, we did things on our own power. But when we find new life in Jesus, we do things with His help.

Following the Savior will replace the destructive attitudes with three beautiful qualities. Kindness chooses to lead with grace in all circumstances, assuming the best of people rather than the worst. Tenderheartedness keeps our hearts soft and not easily offended. Forgiveness releases the debt someone owes us and frees us from a hurt heart. We forgive because Christ first forgave us. By receiving Jesus’s grace, we allow it to flow through us to others, not because people deserve it but because the Savior forgave us when we de didn’t deserve it.

Imagine holding a hot coal, hoping someone else gets burned. Bitterness harms our heart, not the other person. The longer we hold on to it, the more we will get burned. But forgiveness drops the coal and paves the way for healing. With open hands, we can receive from the Lord the grace needed to release the offender and let them go.

When we carry bitterness, rage, anger, and all the others, they become heavy, like a backpack filled with rocks. To lighten our load, we must let them go. As you release the emotions, your shoulders feel lighter, your steps feel freer, and your heart softens. For many years, I carried the rocks of bitterness and unforgiveness in my backpack. I missed out on so many opportunities because of the self-imposed load. Only until I released my hurt to the Lord and accepted His healing did I begin to live life more abundantly.

Let go of the negative and embrace the positive. Tap into the Savior’s strength and allow Him to heal your wounds and fill your heart with love.

Journal Questions:

What bitterness do you need to remove?

How can you put these negative attributes behind you?

Who do you need to forgive?

Application:

Replace one resentful thought with compassion.

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Jesus pauses after teaching the disciples the Lord’s prayer to emphasize forgiveness. God requires us to show mercy to others if we want to receive it ourselves. We can’t become more like the Savior if we don’t learn to extend grace freely. Unforgiveness creates a barrier, hardening our hearts and blocking communication with the Lord. We can’t accept mercy when we cling to resentment. Only when we forgive will we find freedom, aligning our hearts with the Mighty One and gaining a deeper understanding of grace

Some days require more grace than others. Preparing for a women’s event, I had errands to run. My first act of grace came when a poor driver cut me off in traffic. Then I picked up a box of merchandise from one of my locations that had never made it to the sales floor during the busy season, forcing me to forgive the associate who had promised to take care of the items. Then I found out about a transfer to another store that never took place, which harmed my business and required another act of forgiveness.

Thankfully, the Lord helped me forgive quickly and keep the incidents in perspective. But I had to intentionally extend grace to people who didn’t even realize they hurt me with their actions. Only by keeping my focus on the Savior could I find the grace necessary to release the offenses, pray for the offenders, and not let it harden my heart.

Big or small, we must choose to forgive. When we let go of our offenses, offering grace, it pleases the Lord. God wants to forgive us, but if we don’t extend the same mercy to others, we can’t receive it from the Creator. Imagine gripping a stone in a tight fist. We must open our hands and release the rock before we can receive anything else. In the same way, if we clutch unforgiveness in our hearts, we have no room for the forgiveness God wants to give us. We must release the offense before we can receive the gift of mercy.

Forgiveness doesn’t approve of the offender’s actions; it simply says the pain will no longer control your heart. Accept Jesus’s invitation into freedom. Forgiveness releases us from the offender and ourselves. Bitterness chains us to the past; forgiveness opens the door to the future. And sometimes, we must forgive repeatedly, choosing daily to surrender to God’s will and give Him our hurts as we accept His grace.

Journal Questions:

Is there resistance in my heart?

What unforgiveness am I holding onto today?

What area of my life do I need help submitting to God?

Application:

Reflect on how fully Christ has forgiven you.

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Forgiveness and prayer go hand in hand. Without connection to the Savior, we can’t forgive. Only when we let Jesus lead, viewing the offense from His perspective, will we gain the ability to release the offense. Prayer changes our hearts, freeing them from bitterness and resentment towards others. The Lord helps us to see past the offense to the hurt behind it. Hurting people hurt people.

In my younger days, when I wouldn’t release my pain to the Lord, angry at Him and everyone else for my lot in life, I hurt a lot of people. The pain within me would come out in hurtful words that struck to the core. Like a snake, coiled up, ready to strike, my words would bite. Not until I started following Jesus, releasing my pain to Him, did transformation begin. Instead of hurting people, I’ve learned to lay my pain down at the foot of the cross and allow the Lord to heal my heart.

In the same way, when someone strikes out at us, we must look past the offense to the motivation behind it. Often, we’ll find a hurting heart that needs love. By praying and asking God for help, we can release the offense and bring them before the Father, asking for His divine intervention in the situation.

In Jewish culture, people often stood while praying. We start with forgiveness when we approach God, both for ourselves and for others. Asking the Lord to forgive our indiscretions helps us to offer grace to others. The Savior doesn’t limit forgiveness to small offenses, but to all grievances. By doing so, we keep our connection to the Father open and unhindered. A heart that refuses to forgive others becomes hardened and struggles to receive God’s grace. The Lord will give you the strength to forgive, and by doing so, it will free you.

Holding onto unforgiveness hurts you, not the other person. Imagine holding a burning coal while waiting to throw it at someone else. You get burned, not the other person. Only when we release the stone can we free ourselves from the burn. The Lord will work things out; He knows the entire situation, and justice will come. But God didn’t call us to become judge and jury; He called us to become lovers of people, extending grace to them as He does to us.

Seek the Lord in prayer when offended. Ask Him for help to release the offense and rid yourself of the burden. Live in the freedom of Christ, letting go of hurts, and allowing the Savior to mend the wounds.

Journal Questions:

Who do I need to forgive?

How has God helped you forgive in the past?

What freedom do you feel when you release an offense?

Application:

Write the name of the person you need to forgive. Pray a blessing over them.

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God doesn’t think as we do, and we shouldn’t expect Him to. Can you imagine if the world ran the way we thought it should? So many things in this world make no sense to me, but in hindsight, I see the Lord’s hand. History tells the tale of the Creator’s work throughout time. Like the Bible, written over 1500 years, by 40 different authors, it all works together to create the most powerful book ever written. Only intelligent design could make that happen; our sovereign God planned it all.

We only see a small piece of the story; God sees the whole picture. Several situations in my life make no sense. People suffering, heartache abounding, none of it makes sense to me. The age-old question, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” rears its ugly head in so many life circumstances. Often, we don’t get answers to our “whys?” We must trust the Creator’s plan and wait for it to unfold.

“Then the Lord spoke to Job out of the storm. He said, “Who is this that obscures my plans with words without knowledge? Brace yourself like a man; I will question you, and you shall answer me.

“Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation? Tell me, if you understand.”

Job 38:1-4

When Job loses his children, his flocks, and his health, he waits for 38 chapters before God speaks. And when the Lord answers, He doesn’t say why. Instead, the Lord asks Job, “Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation?” Job couldn’t answer that question, and neither can we. The Lord’s thoughts and ways differ from ours, and when we don’t understand why, we must trust.

Remembering we only see a small part of the long story of eternity helps us trust the Lord’s plan. We know what happened when Jesus died on the cross, and how He walked out of the tomb three days later. Even if we don’t understand all the details, we know the Savior’s actions gave us undeserved grace that gives us new life in Him. Transformation happens when we follow Christ.

Only God has all the answers; no one else does. We can’t understand His thoughts and don’t always understand His ways, but we can trust that everything will unfold as the Creator desires, with purpose. Trust in the Savior. Follow Him. And when life doesn’t make sense, trust that it does to the Lord.

Journal Questions:

What doesn’t make sense to you today?

How can trusting God help you deal with the situation?

In what ways does surrendering to the Lord help you let go of the “why” questions?

Application:

Surrender your timeline.

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In Billy Graham’s book, Angels: God’s Secret Agents, he shares a story about missionaries threatened by bandits.[1] Planning to attack the mission compound at night, they suddenly fled. Later, one of the bandits gave his life to Christ. After his conversion, the bandit confessed that they left because they had seen 26 armed soldiers guarding the building. However, the missionaries had no soldiers with them. Even more astounding, when the missionaries shared their story back home, they counted 26 people praying for them.

Angels do exist. Prayer does matter. God protects His people.

In the story of Elisha, when they find themselves surrounded by the enemy, God’s army far outnumbers them. Speaking to the prophet, Elisha asks the Lord to open his eyes to see the spiritual army surrounding them, and He does. We can’t always see the angels that protect us, but it doesn’t mean they don’t exist. One of my favorite Christian fiction books, “In This Present Darkness” by Frank E. Peretti, details spiritual warfare in a realistic, easy-to-understand way.

In Peretti’s book, a small town becomes the center of the devil’s attack. As the people pray and God’s army comes to their defense, the story unfolds. Angels protect the Lord’s people, and demons meet their fate as the battle unfolds, culminating in an unforgettable showdown. Written in 1986, the book remains relevant because spiritual battles rage around us.

“Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.”

Hebrews 13:2

In Paul’s letter to the Hebrews, he tells them to remember that they never know when they entertain angels. Scripture mentions angels close to 300 times, 108 times in the Old Testament and 186 times in the New Testament. Testimony after testimony testifies to their presence on earth. When we ask the Lord to open our eyes, sometimes He gives us a peek into the spiritual world around us.

Whatever challenges we face, we don’t face them alone. The Holy Spirit strengthens us from within, and the Lord’s angels do His will. We can live boldly, knowing God protects His people and has His heavenly army at the ready. Ask the Lord to open your eyes to the unseen, as Elisha did.

The spiritual battle rages on around us. When we pray, we tap into divine help, often unseen, but still present. Let the Lord lead the fight and trust Him for the victory, however He chooses to do it.

Journal Questions:

What do you know about angels?

Have you ever had an angelic encounter?

In what ways does knowing God’s army fights for you give you courage?

Application:

Ask God to show you unseen support or progress.

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[1] Graham, Billy. Angels: God’s Secret Agents. Word Publishing, 1975

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Victory comes from the Lord. Often, we think we did something, but in truth, God grants us success. Nothing Joshua and the Israelites could do in their power could bring down the walls of Jericho; they needed divine help. Can you imagine how ridiculous it must have felt to march around the city walls playing trumpets? What did the people inside the walls think? They never imagined their marches would lead to the townsfolk’s destruction. People probably made fun of the men as they marched around blowing their horns.

But then God.

When the army shouted on the seventh day, without lifting a weapon, the walls collapsed, the Israelites charged the city, and captured it. Obedience and perseverance paid off exactly as God said it would. Hope lived out. Trust exemplified. Faith rewarded. When the Lord leads the way, we will have victory.

In January, my pastor gave a message that set the tone for the year. Studying the book of Acts, we’re learning about the Holy Spirit and its power in our lives. During that message, I had a vision of the walls around my heart falling, like the walls of Jericho.

For the past few years, the Lord has led me on a transformation from the scared little girl, afraid of everything, to a woman walking by faith, trusting God. Ingrained behaviors had taught me how to keep people at arm’s length with words and actions. What my mother called a “mean streak.” Letting go of those protective mechanisms requires an act of the Lord. What I saw, and where I feel God leading me through worship and praise, will cause the remaining walls to fall.

And I want them to fall.

When we try to control the world and the events around us, we wear ourselves out. The Lord never meant for us to do the heavy lifting; He wants to do it for us. Complete surrender trusts God that whatever happens, He will get you through it. And you know what, He does. I’ve witnessed the Creator’s work time and again in my life. God doesn’t do things the way I would, and we should all praise Him for it. The Lord’s way works so much better than anything I could ever dream.

Identify the walls that need to come down in your life. Spend time in prayer, seeking God’s help. March around the walls with prayer and praise and watch them fall.

Journal Questions:

What “walls” need marching around in obedience?

When have you witnessed walls fall?

How has God done things differently than you would have done them?

Application:

Stay faithful in repetition — do the obedient thing again.

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Hope saves, faith rooted in God’s promises. Our salvation doesn’t come from something fixed already, or because suffering has disappeared, but because of the hope Jesus gave us when He walked out of the tomb. If you can see the results, you don’t need hope for it. Hope lives in the in-between. In my book, Love Remains, I explored 1 Cor. 13:13, which says, “these three remain, faith, hope, and love.” When we get to heaven, we’ll no longer need faith and hope because we will live in the Lord’s glory with Him in unfathomable love. But while we live on earth, faith and hope sustain us as we wait for our eternal rewards.

Hope only exists when we wait. If you already have a healed body, you don’t hope for healing. Or if you have a restored relationship, you no longer hope for reconciliation. In the same way, if we already stood in heaven, we wouldn’t hope for it. Paul doesn’t shame the waiting in today’s verse; he normalizes it, as we should. We all wait for something, and will until the Lord calls us home.

How we wait matters. God wants us to wait patiently and persevere steadily under pressure. Not passive or defeated, the Lord wants us to anchor ourselves to Him and trust. When we adopt this posture, we become people who believe in God’s faithfulness, even before we receive the answer. I don’t always know the Savior’s will for my life, but I live in hope because I know He will answer my prayers and reveal it to me in His time.

Seasons where prayers don’t feel answered, healing hasn’t come, promises feel delayed, and you long for restoration don’t mean your faith failed. You live in hope during times like these, trusting God that what hasn’t yet happened will happen, either here on earth or in heaven. One day, when the Lord calls us home, all will become right. We will have complete healing, answers to the unknown, promises fulfilled, and relationships restored. Living in the hope of the Savior means trusting that God will keep His word… the word on which we place our faith.

Live in hope today. Focus your eyes on Jesus, and trust Him completely. Intertwine your life with His, depend on Him completely, and enjoy the abundant life God has for you.

Journal Questions:

How does hope sustain waiting?

Describe a waiting period that drew you closer to God?

How can you wait patiently today?

Application:

Replace one anxious thought with a spoken promise.

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Recently, I listened to an interview with Taya Kyle, the widow of US Navy SEAL Chris Kyle, known as the American Sniper, a military hero shot and killed at a shooting range in Texas after returning from duty. Talking about faith, she described how God told her to take the step, and He would provide the parachute. Repeatedly, she felt situations arise where she had to take the step into the unknown and trust the Lord to provide the parachute.

After several times of taking the step and God giving her the parachute, she felt she had learned the lesson and didn’t know why God kept bringing situations into her life that required her to do it again. So she asked the Lord, and heard His still small voice say, “Until it’s fun.” To me, her experience exemplifies taking steps of faith.

Every time we walk by faith, and not by sight, the Lord provides the parachute. He wants us to live dependent on Him, not independent from Him. We will never reach a point in our lives where we will know everything. But God wants us to keep moving forward, trusting Him to light the path and show us the way. And the Lord wants us to enjoy it.

Working with the owner of one of my shops, she requested “Blind Dates with God.” Wrapping books and decorating them with a tag that gives brief clues about the book, people buy them, not knowing what they will find. Since I had never done anything like this before, I hesitated but knew I must. Taking the step of faith, I learned how to wrap, decorate, and tag books, now available in my shops. The first full day in her store, I sold six copies, almost the entire stock I had put out. And I had fun doing it, once I got over my initial anxiety and took the step.

Obviously, some faith steps take much more effort than learning how to wrap a book. But wherever the Lord takes us, He will provide the parachute we need to take the necessary steps. The more we depend on Him, the more we will want to follow the Savior wherever He takes us, and we can have fun doing it. We walk by faith, not sight, following the sovereign Lord who won’t let us fall.

Take the step, let the Lord provide the parachute, and enjoy the ride!

Journal Questions:

What would walking by faith look like today?

When has God provided a parachute for you in the past?

What step of faith have you hesitated to take?

Application:

Take one small action that reflects trust.