How God’s Assistance Will Make You Victorious in Life

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Daily Reading:  Psalms 60 GW; Ezekiel 25-26 GW; 1 Timothy 3 GW

God trumps man.

People can’t do what God can do.  We blame God for our problems, but in reality, people are who hurt us.  When a friend betrays you, it cuts like a knife.  If someone ridicules you, it hurts profoundly.  And if you are ostracized because you aren’t on board with what the crowd is doing, you feel the isolation deeply.  God doesn’t do any of those things.  He never mocks us nor kicks us out for our differences.  God invites people into His family, and they reject Him.  God isn’t the source of pain; people are.

We must place our expectations on God, not man.  If you’re looking for a person to save you, then you will experience disappointment. God didn’t design people to have that much responsibility. We’re not capable of handling the pressure.  God wants us to rely on Him for assistance and stop looking to imperfect people for help.

Let people off the hook.

If I expect my husband to meet all my needs, I set him up for failure.  Our relationship would struggle, both of us miserable.  God never intended Ron to fulfill that role; he’s my husband, not my Savior.  Looking for Ron to do what only God can do dooms our relationship.  But when I put my expectations on the Lord, I let Ron off the hook.

“It is better to take refuge in the Lord than to trust in man.” (Psalm 118:8 ESV)

Nestled in the middle of the Bible is one of my favorite verses.  When someone hurts me, I think of these words.  In the heart of God’s word, the Lord tells us where to take refuge, and it’s not in man.  Stop expecting people to do God’s job.

Whatever situation you’re facing today, seek the King for help.  Ask your Creator to assist you.  Then give Him time to work.  God isn’t on our schedule; we’re on His.

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Lord, thank You for helping us.  Forgive us for looking to people to do what only You can do.  As we face the trials of this day, please help us.  Let us take refuge in You while you take care of our problems.  Help us let people off the hook as we place our trust in You.  IJNIP.  Amen

Question for reflection

Who do you need to let off the hook today?

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How Praying for People Will Make You Have a Soft Heart

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Daily Reading: Ezekiel 23-24 GW; 1 Timothy 2 GW

Prayer softens.

When you pray for someone, God softens your heart.  Not at first, especially if the person hurt you deeply.  I have people in my life who are extremely difficult to bring before God.  Pain inflicted intentionally isn’t easily forgotten, especially falsely accused.  But pray for them we must:

“But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” (Matthew 5:44 NIV)

Our path to healing comes through prayer.  If we’re going to overcome the offense, then we must soften our hearts.  A prayer I’ve begun praying, “God, keep my heart soft,” illuminates how hard it is.  Every time someone hurts us, our hearts harden.  We build walls to protect us from further injury.  But walls don’t heal, they separate.  If we’re to become whole again, we mustn’t let our hearts become hardened towards our offender.

“Bless them, fix me.” 

Priscilla Shirer

Author Priscilla Shirer has a simple prayer she uses for praying for others, “Bless them, fix me.”  These four words are potent for hardened hearts.  Easy to utter, prayed on repeat; eventually, you genuinely want God to honor the prayer.  When you reach the point where you feel no more angst, your heart is once again soft.

What happens, over time, God reveals the truth to you.  Typically, whether God shows you something about yourself or the other person, it helps you see the humanity in the situation.  All of us are sinners in need of grace.  Prayer reminds us of that fact, which in turn helps soften our hearts.

Soft hearts produce kind actions.  Instead of causing more hurt in the world, you stop the vicious circle.  Healing people help others heal; hurting people hurt them.  You have a choice.  You can help solve the issue or become part of it.  Prayer enables you to deal with the situation without causing more harm.  Keeping your heart soft will help all of your relationships, especially the one with God.

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Lord, thank You for keeping our hearts soft.  Forgive us for hardening them when we’re in pain.  Help us today seek You first and foremost.  Bless those who have hurt us, fix the things in us that need fixing.  Help us become healthy and whole, spreading Your light wherever we go.  IJNIP.  Amen

Question for reflection

Who do you need to pray for today?

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How God’s Kindness Will Make You Find Faith

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Daily Reading: Ezekiel 21-22 GW; Psalms 5 GW; 1 Timothy 1 GW

God is kind.

Paul recognizes God’s kindness in his life.  Once a persecutor of Christians, Paul now has new life in Christ.  Paul stoned and killed people for the sake of the law, yet one day, while walking to Damascus, God intervened. Forgiving Paul, God changed his world with one interaction.

Forgiveness is God’s kindness.  Whatever you’re beating yourself up for today, God forgave you.  When we place our trust in Christ, we receive unconditional love and forgiveness.  In God’s sovereignty, He knows our sins.   Thankfully, I’ve not killed nor stoned anyone, but I have committed sins that I find hard to forgive.  I know all the skeletons in my closet, and some of them seem unforgivable from my perspective.  But they are not from God’s.

God’s mercy never ends.

Understanding God forgives you is His kindness.  We must have faith to receive God’s mercy.  All God wants is for us to believe and accept the grace He offers.

My husband shows me grace constantly.  Recently, we had a miscommunication.  I misunderstood something he said; his communication wasn’t clear.  Both of us were at fault, but more me than him.  During our fight, I said words I regret.  But he forgives me, not holding them against me.  His act of grace causes me to love him more.  Ron doesn’t bring up our past arguments; once over, he lets them go.  Because of Ron’s grace for me, I’m learning to have more grace for others.

God’s grace is kindness.  When God says He forgives, He does so entirely.  What you deem unforgivable, God forgives.  If we’re to start fresh every morning, then we need to receive God’s mercies anew.  God wipes the slate clean; we get a chance to fill it with different choices.  

Receiving God’s kindness is genuine.  Grace is a free gift offered to us.  Nothing we do can earn God’s mercy.  God’s kindness leads to faith.

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Lord, thank You for Your kindness towards us.  Forgive us for not accepting the gifts You offer.  Help us accept Your grace and mercy today.  As we receive Your kindness, help it build our faith.  Let us share what we receive with all we meet.  Help us shine Your light brightly today.  IJNIP. Amen

Question for reflection

How do you receive God’s kindness?

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How Restoration Will Make You Call on God

2 minute read.

Daily Reading: Psalms 80 GW; Ezekiel 19-20 GW

Everyone wavers.

Asaph, the author of today’s Psalm, is asking God to restore Israel once again.  Repeatedly, the Israelites turn from God, then back to Him.  Just like us, we are no different than them.  False gods still exist, as do idols.  We can find lots of things to worship other than God.  But none of those things will fulfill us as God can.  When we realize we’ve strayed, restoration is necessary.

“O God, restore us and smile on us so that we may be saved.” (Psalm 80:3 GW)

No one goes from the womb to the tomb without strife.  Everyone who is born has struggles.  Sometimes, they take us to God; other times, we turn away from Him.  When my father died, I spent ten years running from God.  Angry, full of unexpressed emotions, I isolated myself from God and people.  When I finally found my way back, my prayer became simple. “Don’t let me turn away again, God.  I don’t want to go through that ever again.”

Let God Restore you.

Asking God for His power and strength will restore you.  God provides for us what we can’t do for ourselves.  We’re incapable of restoring ourselves, we can’t save ourselves.  Only God has the power to rescue us.  You can always call out to Jesus, He’s never out of hearing.

Currently, I’m listening to “Hinds’ Feet on High Places” by Hannah Hurnard.  The novel depicts the journey we all take as we follow Jesus.  Our heroine, “Much-Afraid,” crippled and rejected, chooses to trust the Shepherd who will lead her to high places, renaming her “Acceptance with Joy.”  Her companions are Sorrow and Suffering; anytime Much-Afraid needs the Shepherd, all she has to do is call out to Him.  We’re “Much-Afraid,” God wants us to become “Acceptance with Joy.”  We can, knowing the Shepherd is always near.

Call out to God.  Let Him restore you today.  Let go of fear; replace it with joy.

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Lord, thank You for proximity; when we call, You answer.  Forgive us for turning from You.  Help us never leave You again.  Let us cling to You with fervor, experiencing Your unending joy.  Strengthen us for the journey; help us find the high places with You.  IJNIP. Amen

Question for reflection

What do area of your life needs restoration?

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How God Dropping the Mic Will Make You Find Rest

2 minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezekiel 17-18 GW; Psalms 24 GW

Rest is God’s mic drop.

David is our speaker today; he’s talking about God’s sovereignty.  Everything on the earth is God’s; He controls the wind and the rains.  David ends the psalm with my word for this year, “Selah,” which means to pause for reflection, resting.  Found only 71 times in the Psalms, the placement after David’s exclamation did make me pause.

God is in control, period.  No ifs, and, or buts about God’s sovereignty.  We are not the ones running the world; God is.  Definitely a good place for a mic drop, don’t you think?

One of my daily tasks on my phone reminds me to stop and listen.  Selah. Defining Rest in an Age of Productivity is the Youversion reading plan where I found these words:

“Selah: stop and listen.  Man’s blessing didn’t come from what he produced; rather, what he produced stemmed from his blessing.  Let that blessing fuel your work so that striving ceases and what you produce comes out of a place of rest.”

Selah

Stop striving and start resting.  Let God’s mic drop impact your life.  You don’t have to control everything; it’s not on your job description.  As my therapist likes to remind me, my job isn’t to save the world; that’s God’s work.  My mission on earth is the same every day, love God, love others.  Only by resting in God can I accomplish my goal.

Transitioning this year from graduate school into a new career was difficult for me.  For the first time in my life, I didn’t rush into the “next thing.”  Instead, I did the best  I could to let God do the leading.  Patience isn’t my virtue, but after this year, it’s better than ever.  What I find is I’m talking less and listening more, both with God and people.  I’m becoming better at having uncomfortable conversations that lead to healthier relationships.  And I’m writing because I know that’s what God created me to do.  Each morning I ask Him to let the words flow.  So far, so God.

Rest is God’s mic drop.  Selah.

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Lord, thank You for controlling the world and removing that burden from us.  Forgive us for trying anyway.  Help us today; rest in You.  Let Your mic drop change our lives.  IJNIP. Amen

Question for reflection

How can you stop and listen to God today?

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How Planting the Wrong Seed Will Make You Sorry

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Daily Reading: Ezekiel 16 GW; Galatians 6 GW

God isn’t a fool.

Heart business is God’s passion.  Without a doubt, God understands the motives of our actions.  Turning to Him is an opportunity for healing, but often we go in the opposite direction.  After all, if God was so good, why did something terrible happen?  Don’t we have a right to rebel against our Creator?  But we never fool God; he knows what we’re doing.

If you plant meanness, you’ll receive it in return.  Whatever we put out is what we get back.  In my younger years, my anger over the loss of my father made me unpleasant.   Walking around with a chip on my shoulder, feeling like the world owed me, is an accurate description of those days.  Resentment towards others’ good fortune caused me to isolate myself.  If I didn’t let anyone near me, they couldn’t hurt me.  Self-defense doesn’t make sense sometimes.

But I was heading in the wrong direction.  Instead of running to God, I ran from Him.  Hindsight three decades later gives me a perfect vision.  No one harmed me but me.  

Plant spiritually.

“If you plant in ⌞the soil of⌟ your corrupt nature, you will harvest destruction. But if you plant in ⌞the soil of⌟ your spiritual nature, you will harvest everlasting life.” (Galatians 6:8 GW)

Doing the right thing is something we must choose every day.  Reading God’s Word, connecting daily with Him helps us to accomplish divine tasks.  Without God’s intervention, we can’t plant in our spiritual nature.  Our corrupt nature only causes trouble; God’s pure nature produces a bountiful harvest.

Remember, everyone is struggling; you’re not the only one.  Each person is born into their battles.  How we respond to the unpleasant side of life is our choice.  Let God’s Spirit help you plant the right seeds.  Create beauty from ashes by giving God your pain.

Bad seeds produce wicked crops.  Good seeds produce bounties from heaven.  You can’t fool God. With Him, all things are possible.

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Lord, thank You for caring about our hearts.  Forgive us for trying to fool You.  Grant us an extra measure of grace as we move through our days.  Don’t let us get caught in our corrupt nature.  Help us plant vibrant seeds in Your spiritual nature that will produce everlasting life.  IJNIP.  Amen.

Question for reflection

What kind of seeds are you planting?

How Producing Good Fruit Will Make You Rely on the Spirit

2 minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezekiel 13-15 GW; Galatians 5 GW

 Fresh fruit depends on God.

Allowing God’s Spirit to work within us will help us produce good fruit.  When we let God take control, He works inside our hearts.  We can’t grow spiritual fruit without God’s help. Our human nature has a different plan: 

“Now, the effects of the corrupt nature are obvious: illicit sex, perversion, promiscuity, idolatry, drug use, hatred, rivalry, jealousy, angry outbursts, selfish ambition, conflict, factions, envy, drunkenness, wild partying, and similar things.” (Galatians 5:19-21 GW)

Yep, left to our own devices, we get into trouble.  Personal experience knows this truth too well; allowing God to lead changes things.  We can overcome our sinful nature with the Father’s mighty power.  No way can we exhibit the fruits of the Spirit without the Spirit.

Develop sensitivity.

Years ago, at Christmas, God inspired me.  Studying the fruits of the Spirit, I created a fun activity to get through the holidays.  Writing out each fruit on paper, I made cute little bags for them.  Then I gave the festive pouches to each of my friends, with simple instructions.  Each day during the holiday season, we drew a fruit from the bag.  Throughout our day, we were to practice that particular fruit.  Over the month-long project, we had the opportunity to actively engage with each fruit, relying on God’s Spirit to help us in our efforts.

As in all things, we have a choice.  Choosing to focus on the fruit of the Spirit means denying our selfish desires.  One can’t practice self-control and drunkenness at the same time.  God’s Spirit guides us in the opposite direction of our sinful nature.  Letting God take the wheel is worthwhile.  No one ever regretted not drinking alcohol, but many people regret overindulging, including me.  I’d rather wake up full of God’s Spirit than a hangover from the night before.

Let God’s Spirit lead you today.  Become sensitive to His promptings.  Produce good fruit by relying on God.

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Lord, thank You for Your Spirit within us.  Forgive us for ignoring Your promptings and following our selfish desires.  Today, help us become more sensitive.  Let us produce good fruit that will uplift and encourage others.  As we learn to rely on Your Spirit more, bless our efforts.  IJNIP.  Amen

Question for reflection

What fruit of the Spirit do you want to focus on today?

How Doulos Will Make You Become Like Jesus

2 minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezekiel 11-12 GW; Galatians 4 GW

Doulos for God.

My introduction to the word “Doulos” happened years ago.  The pastor received a car as a gift, and “Doulos” was the license plate he chose.  The Greek word means “slave.”  In his message, the pastor talked about the word and why he chose it.  The New Testament uses Doulos 120 times.  According to the NAS New Testament Greek Lexicon:

Doulos is a slave, bondman, man of servile condition.  Metaphorically, one who gives himself up to another’s will whose service is used by Christ in extending and advancing His cause among men. 

In other words, the pastor was a slave to Christ, bonded with Him in his mission, as are we when we become Christ-followers.  We leave our old sins behind as we strive to become new in Christ.  When we give our life for God, we become Doulos to Him.

God’s bondservant.

Submitting your life to Christ bonds us with Him.  Every day, as we strive to follow and obey Jesus’s commands, we draw closer to Him.  Our relationship becomes more vital as our lives transform, becoming new, one day at a time.

I’m an ex-smoker, having quit when I was 30.  But occasionally, I would still smoke a cigarette.  After my sister died in 2001, I started again.  I would buy a pack of cigarettes, smoke one, and throw the rest away.  One day, my brother caught me smoking.  In dismay, I hid the smoking tobacco and immediately lied to cover up my sin.  He believed me, but the weight of lying to my brother consumed me.  Minutes after he pulled out of the driveway, I called and confessed my sin.  I’d rather tell the truth than a lie.  Integrity is built one honest statement at a time.  And, that moment helped me stop smoking again.  If what I’m doing causes me to lie, then I shouldn’t do it.  Because of my doulos, my life changed.

Become a bondservant of Christ.  Submit your life to His willingly.  Let your life change in ways you never imagined.

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Lord, thank You for Jesus.  Forgive us for rebelling against Him, time and time again.  Help us today become bonded with Christ.  Let our relationships with You become more profound as we obey Your commands.  In all things, the glory is Yours.  IJNIP.  Amen

Question for reflection

What type of relationship do you want with Jesus?

How Belief Will Make You Approved by God

2 minute read.

Daily Reading:  Ezekiel 8-10 GW; Galatians 3 GW

God wants you to believe.

More than anything else, belief is what God wants most.  Believe God exists, that He is real, and His promises are true.  I know how hard believing is at times.  Especially when the world around you is following apart, and you can’t control what is happening. God’s presence and consistency are what get us through those moments.  Even though we feel out of sorts, God never does.  God is always in control, His plan unfolding one day at a time.

Recently, my husband and I had the privilege of attending Lauren Daigle’s World Tour Concert. “You Say” is my go-to song when life is pressing in on me.  When the world is winning and my belief is struggling, I play the words on repeat, listening until my faith strengthens.

You are loved!

“You say I am loved when I can’t feel a thing

You say I am strong when I think I am weak

And you say I am held when I am falling short

And when I don’t belong, oh You say I am Yours

And I believe (I)

Oh, I believe (I)

What You say of me (I)

I believe”

Today’s picture is confetti that fell from the ceiling during the concert.  Before Lauren sang “You Say,” letters written to her from listeners scrolled across the screen.  The last one was a young man, sitting in his car, watching trucks driving on the road, wondering which one would kill him.  As he began to put his foot on the pedal, “You Say” came on the radio and saved his life.

God is with you in your dark moments.  He will provide a way for you.  Trust what God’s promises say.  Believe, just believe.  All God wants is for you to believe.

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Lord, thank You for always showing up.  Forgive our unbelief; help us believe.  For all those reading this today who are hurting, give them relief from their pain.  Anyone who is struggling with heartache, Lord, save them.  Reach down and comfort them in ways unique to them, let them not doubt what is happening.  God, help us all believe without a doubt, You are real.  You love us; Your promises are true.  We need You, Lord.  IJNIP.  Amen

Question for reflection

What makes you struggle with believing in God?

How God Uses Everything Will Make You Astonished

2 minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 16 GW; Mark 14 GW; Psalms 88 GW

God wastes nothing.

Our heroine today is Mary, sister of Lazarus (John 12:3 NIV).  The perfume she pours on Jesus’ feet is Nard, made from a plant in the Himalayas.  Expensive, the costly liquid was equivalent to a year’s wages.  Jesus was visiting Simon in his home with several others when Mary found him.  Watching, the witnesses think Mary’s act is wasteful.  What the onlookers didn’t realize, Mary’s actions prepared Jesus for His burial.

Days before Passover, Simon and his friends didn’t know what was coming.  None of them could understand Jesus’s death and resurrection yet.  From their earthly position, what Mary did was wasteful.  But in reality, God was powerfully using Mary. Simon and the boys didn’t have the capability of understanding this fact.  Mary’s act prepared Jesus for burial.

Only God knows.

Just like the men didn’t understand Mary’s act, we do the same.  Someone does something for Jesus in a way that doesn’t make sense to us, and we question the action.  But God understands and uses it for His good.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28 NIV)

No matter what the situation, God doesn’t waste it.  When we’re actively serving the Lord, fulfilling our mission to the best of our ability, God will work things out for good.  Perfection isn’t required to serve God, just willingness.

Mary’s willingness to give up a year’s wages to anoint Jesus’s feet shows her heart.  Maybe she could have done things differently, but she did them her way.  God knew her actions were pure.  Human understanding isn’t necessary for divine tasks.  More times than not, people won’t get why you do the things you do for Jesus.  But in time, the truth comes out.  After Jesus’s death and resurrection, Simon understood Mary’s actions, but only in time.

People serve God in different ways.  If someone’s actions baffle you, give it time.  God reveals all things at the right moment.

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Lord, thank You for Mary’s example.  Forgive us when we’re unwilling to serve you completely.  As we move through our day, give us opportunities to honor You.  Let us submit to You fully today, seeking Your will, not ours.  IJNIP.  Amen

Question for reflection

When have someone’s actions baffled you?