Two-minute read.
Sometimes, life seems like a maze. Standing at a crossroads, we must decide which path to take. As we analyze each of our choices, we must choose between better and best, not good or bad. Last week’s message at church emphasized what makes spiritual champions: they choose between better and best. But how do we know which one to follow? Instead of relying on our understanding, we seek God’s will and allow Him to choose for us. When we do, He will make our paths straight.
Putting away Christmas decorations, Ron handed me boxes through the attic window, and I arranged them. When we got to the 7-foot Christmas tree, I found it heavy and hard to handle. While I struggled to drag it to the back of the attic, Ron peppered me with questions about what I wanted next. Irritation rose within me as I continued to battle the big, heavy box. Couldn’t he wait until I got the tree put away? Can’t he see how much I’m struggling? As I processed these thoughts, I realized I had choices on how I answered.
I could use mean words that would hurt him.
I could say nothing at all.
I could ignore his questions and act like I couldn’t hear him.
Or I could respond with kindness.
Before I said a word or chose my path, I lifted a prayer to the Lord to help manage my irritation and not say something I would regret. Instantly, my thoughts changed, and I acknowledged that the irritation came not from his questions but from my exhaustion. After working all day, I felt tired and just wanted the job done. And so did Ron. Instead of snapping at my husband, I asked him to wait until I finished putting the tree away before asking me any more questions.
God showed me the best path to take, one that didn’t harm our relationship or cause us to quarrel. We finished the project and spent the rest of the afternoon in peace. By seeking the Lord’s will, I avoided the consequences of following mine, and He did give us a straight path that led to harmony.
When we seek the Savior and His will, He does direct our paths. The Holy Spirit, always active within us, will prompt us in the right direction if we allow Him to do so. But God doesn’t go where He’s not wanted, and if we don’t invite Him into our lives, He doesn’t come. Ask the Lord for His direction, follow the Spirit’s promptings, and live in divine peace with God and others.
Journal Questions:
When have you chosen the wrong path?
How can you remember to invite God into your circumstances?
In what way has God led you down the right path?
Application:
Thank God for His direction.
