One-minute read.
“I love your nails,” I say often when I notice a woman who has taken the time for a manicure. In my younger years, I spent a lot of time at the nail salon, ensuring my fingers looked beautiful. I know the amount of time, money, and effort it takes to maintain pretty fingertips. And so, when I compliment someone’s manicure, I do it to encourage them for their effort.
Encouraging someone doesn’t take much effort. The most obvious compliments come from their appearance. Last week at dinner, I noticed a woman with gold, glittery Crocs on her feet that made a statement, so I told her I liked them, because I did. What people choose to wear, or do to their bodies, expresses their personality, and by complimenting them on their choice, it inevitably encourages them.
An even better way to encourage someone happens when we compliment their character. “Great sportsmanship. Way to be honest,” comes often from my mouth when coaching. “Thanks for setting that example for me,” or “I appreciate your kindness,” also encourages and uplifts people.
Find the good and say the good, and you will encourage all you meet.
Summer Fun Activity:
Invite friends over for a picnic.
