One-minute read.
Not keeping a record of others’ faults requires intention. I can quickly list Ron’s annoying traits, but instead of holding them against him, I thank the Lord for them. Each night when I hear his snoring, I praise God for having him in bed with me. After my father died, I remember my mom saying, “I miss sleeping with him.” Now I understand why; my father could saw some logs in his sleep, and the entire house heard him. But writing this on the 39th anniversary of his death, we have missed his presence and his snoring.
Instead of focusing on people’s wrongs, praise God for their presence in your life. Only the Lord knows the length of one’s life. Not only does today mark Dad’s homecoming, but also our flower girl’s first anniversary of her move to heaven. God gave her to us for twenty years, and now she lives in glory with Him. Remembering the brevity of life helps us appreciate the people God gives us, no matter what they’re shortcomings. And we all have faults. I don’t want others keeping a list of mine, and so I try not to keep a list of theirs.
Honor those in your life by putting their needs above yours, not letting anger control you, and keeping no record of their wrongs. Love them well and receive the joy of their presence.
Journal Question:
How can you let go of people’s faults and honor them instead?
Random Act of Kindness:
Who can you honor today with an act of love?
