Two-minute read.
Jonathan, Saul’s son, and David, the shepherd boy who defeated Goliath, had a special friendship. When Saul got jealous of David and tried to kill him, Jonathan protected his friend. Because of his father’s hatred for David, they had to part ways. As they separated, Jonathan said these words to his friend, trusting the Lord would watch between them. God watches all our friendships because He cares for us. Whether we live separated or right next door, the Creator sees it all.
Currently, I’m sick with a chest cold, sore throat, and lost voice. Feeling miserable, I texted my oldest and dearest friend to tell her. Unfortunately, she has what I have. We live eight hours apart, but we commiserated, prayed for each other, checked our progress, and supported each other. God bonds our friendship, despite the distance. As I love to tell people, “Our mothers were pregnant together.” The Lord made us friends in the womb, and He’s kept the cord together over five decades. At times, we lost touch, but thankfully, the Savior always brought us back together.
No one wants you to have healthy relationships more than Jesus. When He came to Earth, the Savior set an example for us to follow. Christ always put people first, seeking salvation for all. But the Savior knew that for people to place their faith in Him, they must trust Him. Unfortunately, even after witnessing His numerous miracles, some still wouldn’t believe, and gratefully, many did. Giving our lives to Christ means developing a close relationship with Him.
Ultimately, faith in Christ means having a loving relationship with Him and others. God wants our friendship, but also for us to have friendships with others. He watches between us and helps us have full relationships that bring joy to our hearts. Applying His teachings to our lives gives us the tools to have rich, full connections with Him and others. Obeying the Lord doesn’t deter relationships; it enhances them. The next time you have a friendship dilemma, consult the scriptures for advice. Seek God and His guidance to find the right path to take.
The Lord watches over us. He keeps our friendships under His watchful eye. When we need assistance, the Savior gives it. Following Jesus will lead us on the path of righteousness and help us enjoy our relationships to the fullest. Like Jonathan and David, the Lord watches between our friendships and keeps them close, no matter the distance.
Journal Questions:
In what friendship do you feel God’s presence most?
How has obeying the Lord made your relationships better?
How has faith in Jesus changed your friendships?
Friendship Application:
Seek God’s presence in your friendships and let Him guide your paths.
