{"id":9239,"date":"2023-12-11T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-11T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/?p=9239"},"modified":"2023-11-07T15:55:11","modified_gmt":"2023-11-07T20:55:11","slug":"9239","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/12\/11\/9239\/","title":{"rendered":"Spoiled Grief"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9242\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1;width:333px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Green-White-Snow-Video-December-Your-Story-Instagram-Post.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><strong>Daily Reading:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Amos+4%3A1-6%3A14&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Amos 4:1-6:14<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Revelation+2%3A18-3%3A6&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Revelation 2:18-3:6<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm+130%3A1-8&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Psalm 130:1-8<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Proverbs+29%3A21-22&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Proverbs 29:21-22<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Daily Verse:<\/strong> <em>\u201cWhoever pampers his servant from childhood will in the end find him his heir.\u201d Prov. 29:21<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spoiled grief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today\u2019s verse addresses what happens when we pamper people, in this case, a servant. Downton Abby comes to mind, thinking of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Robert_James-Collier\">Robert James-Collier\u2019s<\/a> character, <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/List_of_Downton_Abbey_characters#Thomas_Barrow\">Thomas Barrow<\/a>.\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0An underbutler with entitlement issues, Mr. Barrow\u2019s insolence causes many conflicts in the popular series.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cJesus wasn\u2019t an enabler,\u201d I often say. The Savior didn\u2019t do the fishing for people; He taught them how to fish. When we pamper people in our lives, as much as our heart wants the best for them, we cause more harm than good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, giving people all their worldly desires doesn\u2019t make them happy because happiness doesn\u2019t come from things. True joy comes from a heart in tune with God, confession cleansing our hearts and giving us the chance to try again.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God never meant for us to have no trouble in this life. He promises we will have problems, but in Him, we can overcome anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of fishing for people, teach them how to fish. Find enjoyment in the journey as you help others become the best version of themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"760\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg 760w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1-300x39.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Lord, bless us with discernment in our relationships, helping others to thrive instead of causing them to flounder. IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One minute read. Daily Reading: Amos 4:1-6:14, Revelation 2:18-3:6, Psalm 130:1-8, Proverbs 29:21-22 Daily Verse: \u201cWhoever pampers his servant from childhood will in the end find him his heir.\u201d Prov. 29:21 Spoiled grief. Today\u2019s verse addresses what happens when we pamper people, in this case, a servant. Downton Abby comes to mind, thinking of Robert&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/12\/11\/9239\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Spoiled Grief<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9239","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9239","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9239"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9239\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9499,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9239\/revisions\/9499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}