{"id":8426,"date":"2023-08-20T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-20T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/?p=8426"},"modified":"2023-07-25T05:38:44","modified_gmt":"2023-07-25T10:38:44","slug":"8426","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/08\/20\/8426\/","title":{"rendered":"Controlled Speech"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8427\" width=\"328\" height=\"328\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Whoever-keeps-his-mouth-and-his-tongue-keeps-himself-out-of-trouble.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 328px) 100vw, 328px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Reading:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Esther+8%3A1-10%3A3+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Esther 8:1-10:3<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1+Cor.+12%3A27-13%3A13+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>1 Cor. 12:27-13:13<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm+37%3A1-11+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Psalm 37:1-11<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Proverbs+21%3A23-24&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Proverbs 21:23-24<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Verse:<\/strong> <em>\u201cWhoever keeps his mouth and his tongue&nbsp;keeps himself out of&nbsp;trouble.\u201d Prov. 21:23<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Controlled speech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Walking nine holes of golf on a Friday afternoon in 90-plus degrees of weather, I lost control of my speech.&nbsp; I confronted the couple in front of us because I mistakenly thought they had slowed down play by passing us.&nbsp; As the situation unfolded, I realized I made a mistake and accused them of something they didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To make matters worse, I knew them through their kids who I coached in tennis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Consumed with shame and embarrassment, I sent a sincere and heartfelt apology which they graciously accepted.&nbsp; But the humbling from the Lord for my uncontrolled speech taught me a valuable lesson.&nbsp; Hopefully, I will never let my anger take control of my tongue again.&nbsp; Only with divine intervention can I accomplish my goal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Losing control of your speech for whatever reason leads to heartache and remorse.&nbsp; Before we speak, we must filter our words and ensure they will uplift and encourage the receiver.&nbsp; If not, we shouldn\u2019t talk.&nbsp; Following God\u2019s advice will lead to life to the fullest, but when we don\u2019t, we will experience negative consequences.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"760\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg 760w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1-300x39.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lord, forgive us for speaking uncontrollably. Please help us always have the tools we need to control our tongues. Let uplifting and encouraging words come from our mouths and nothing else. IJNIP. Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One minute read. Daily Reading: Esther 8:1-10:3, 1 Cor. 12:27-13:13, Psalm 37:1-11, Proverbs 21:23-24 Daily Verse: \u201cWhoever keeps his mouth and his tongue&nbsp;keeps himself out of&nbsp;trouble.\u201d Prov. 21:23 Controlled speech. Walking nine holes of golf on a Friday afternoon in 90-plus degrees of weather, I lost control of my speech.&nbsp; I confronted the couple in&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/08\/20\/8426\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Controlled Speech<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8426","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8426","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8426"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8426\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8431,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8426\/revisions\/8431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8426"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8426"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8426"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}