{"id":832,"date":"2019-06-13T04:00:29","date_gmt":"2019-06-13T09:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=832"},"modified":"2019-05-13T12:32:47","modified_gmt":"2019-05-13T17:32:47","slug":"dont-borrow-trouble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2019\/06\/13\/dont-borrow-trouble\/","title":{"rendered":"DON\u2019T BORROW TROUBLE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u201cTherefore don\u2019t worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. \u00a0Each day has enough trouble of its own.\u201d  Matthew 6:34 CSB<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today is my dear friend Leslie\u2019s birthday. &nbsp;We met 20 years ago through our work.  I worked for Nautica, she worked for Polo. &nbsp;It was in Chesapeake Square Mall, which now no longer exists, Dillard\u2019s to be exact. &nbsp;She came over and introduced herself to me.  I was new on the job, I wasn\u2019t sure if I was allowed to talk to the competition. &nbsp;No lie.  Turns out I was and she became one of my best friends.  She\u2019s battling breast cancer, prayers appreciated.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Leslie has listened to me worry a lot in the last 20 years. &nbsp;When I was consumed with worry about something, she always says to me, \u201cDon\u2019t borrow trouble.\u201d &nbsp;It\u2019s only recently I\u2019ve begun to understand the truth in that statement.  I realize now, I would be so consumed worrying about something out of my control, I wasn\u2019t enjoying the current moment. &nbsp;It\u2019s difficult to not worry about tomorrow, it\u2019s difficult not to borrow trouble.  It\u2019s a fine balance between enjoying today and worrying about the future.  <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I was looking through my notes, I found this quote, \u201cThoughts are parents to your deeds.\u201d I have no idea where it came from, or who said it. &nbsp;But I think it can help us stay in the moment and not worry about tomorrow.  We have a choice what we focus our thoughts on each day.  It\u2019s up to us to determine what we are going to let control them. &nbsp;We can let worry consume us or we can intentionally focus our thoughts in the moment we are living.  What Leslie was saying to me when she said, \u201cDon\u2019t borrow trouble\u201d was control what you are thinking about. &nbsp;Paul, in his second letter to the Corinthians puts it this way, \u201ctake captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ\u201d (2 Corinthians 10:5b NIV).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paul takes it a step further in his letter to the Philippians:<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cFinally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable\u2014if anything is excellent or praiseworthy\u2014think about such things\u201d (Phil. 4:8 NIV).<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paul\u2019s telling us, whatever moment it is, look for the good. &nbsp;Look for the true, the noble, the right, whatever it is, look for the praiseworthy. &nbsp;There will be moments in life that will be much harder than others to do this.  But if we do, we will start to take our thoughts captive, we\u2019ll be focusing on the moment, we\u2019ll be finding God. &nbsp;Don\u2019t borrow trouble, look for the good.<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cTherefore don\u2019t worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. \u00a0Each day has enough trouble of its own.\u201d Matthew 6:34 CSB Today is my dear friend Leslie\u2019s birthday. &nbsp;We met 20 years ago through our work. I worked for Nautica, she worked for Polo. &nbsp;It was in Chesapeake Square Mall, which now no longer&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2019\/06\/13\/dont-borrow-trouble\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">DON\u2019T BORROW TROUBLE<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-832","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/832","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=832"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/832\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":833,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/832\/revisions\/833"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=832"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=832"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=832"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}