{"id":8163,"date":"2023-07-04T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-04T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/?p=8163"},"modified":"2023-06-15T04:51:55","modified_gmt":"2023-06-15T09:51:55","slug":"8163","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/07\/04\/8163\/","title":{"rendered":"Poor Listening"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8164\" width=\"329\" height=\"329\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Grey-Happy-World-Hearing-Day-Instagram-Post.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 329px) 100vw, 329px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Reading:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=2+Kings+23%3A31-25%3A30+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>2 Kings 23:31-25:30<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Acts+22%3A17-23%3A10+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Acts 22:17-23:10<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm+2%3A1-12+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Psalm 2:1-12<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Proverbs+18%3A13&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Proverbs 18:13<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Verse:<\/strong> <em>\u201cIf one gives an answer&nbsp;before he hears, it is his folly and shame.\u201d Prov. 18:13<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poor listening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marriage helped me become a better listener. Ron has taught me that I don\u2019t know people\u2019s thoughts, and to learn them, I must listen. For so many years, I didn\u2019t listen well, thinking I knew what the person would say, cutting them off and interjecting my thoughts, total self-absorption.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u201cPoor listening reveals that the person has a low regard for what the other is saying or is too absorbed in self-importance.\u201d<\/em> Expositor\u2019s Bible Commentary<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mike and Lynda Cooke taught me listening skills, marriage mentors to us. Using a napkin, whoever holds it gets to talk, and the other person must listen to every word without interrupting.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Listening well takes work. Repeat back to the person what they just said to make sure you understand them before responding. Practice listening and not assuming you know. People will surprise you with their words, and you will become a better listener.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Respect people by listening to them and understanding their point of view before trying to convey yours.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"760\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg 760w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1-300x39.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lord, forgive us for not listening to others well and assuming we know their thoughts. Help us become better listeners as we practice listening and develop the skill. IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One minute read. Daily Reading: 2 Kings 23:31-25:30, Acts 22:17-23:10, Psalm 2:1-12, Proverbs 18:13 Daily Verse: \u201cIf one gives an answer&nbsp;before he hears, it is his folly and shame.\u201d Prov. 18:13 Poor listening. Marriage helped me become a better listener. Ron has taught me that I don\u2019t know people\u2019s thoughts, and to learn them, I&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/07\/04\/8163\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Poor Listening<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8163"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8163\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8167,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8163\/revisions\/8167"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}