{"id":8062,"date":"2023-06-16T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-06-16T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/?p=8062"},"modified":"2023-05-29T06:16:49","modified_gmt":"2023-05-29T11:16:49","slug":"8062","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2023\/06\/16\/8062\/","title":{"rendered":"Discretion in Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/White-Green-Modern-Welcome-June-Facebook-Post-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8065\" width=\"344\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/White-Green-Modern-Welcome-June-Facebook-Post-1.jpg 940w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/White-Green-Modern-Welcome-June-Facebook-Post-1-300x251.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/White-Green-Modern-Welcome-June-Facebook-Post-1-768x644.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 344px) 100vw, 344px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Reading:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1+Kings+15%3A25-17%3A24+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>1 Kings 15:25-17:24<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Acts+10%3A24-48+&amp;version=ESV\"><strong>Acts 10:24-48<\/strong><\/a>, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=+Psalm+134%3A1-3+&amp;version=CEV\">Psalm 134:1-3<\/a><\/strong>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Proverbs+17%3A9-11&amp;version=CEV\"><strong>Proverbs 17:9-11<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Verse:<\/strong> <em>\u201cWhoever\u00a0covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter\u00a0separates close friends.\u201d Prov. 17:9<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Discretion in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friendship requires the ability to forget. When someone offends us, we must learn to let it go and speak of it no longer. Ruminating about it and sharing the hurt with others will only make e things worse, alienating people and ending relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Clara Barton, the founder of the American Red Cross, chose forgiveness. When a friend asked about a mean act done to her years before, the nurse responded, <strong><em>\u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/leadingandlovingit.com\/leadership\/continued-forgiveness-2\/#:~:text=By%20replying%2C%20%E2%80%9CI%20distinctly%20remember,I%20still%20choose%20to%20forgive.%E2%80%9D\">I distinctly remember forgetting it.\u201d<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">God allows us to choose how we respond and control our thoughts. Clara exercised her actions and mind by deliberately forgetting the offense, and we can too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Full confession, I have damaged relationships because I couldn\u2019t forget the offense. \u00a0\u00a0Entering the second half of my life, I\u2019m working diligently not to do this anymore.\u00a0\u00a0 My phone screensaver says, <em>\u201cForgiveness is the conscious choice to give up your right to make the other person pay because you trust God to make things right.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We must choose to forgive and trust God to handle the offense. By doing so, we will develop healthy, loving relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"760\" height=\"100\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7117\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1.jpg 760w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Beach-Wear-Etsy-Banner-1-300x39.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lord, forgive us for not letting go of offenses. Please help us forgive quickly, cover offenses, and love others well, trusting You with any hurts we have. Keep our hearts soft towards others. IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One minute read. Daily Reading: 1 Kings 15:25-17:24, Acts 10:24-48, Psalm 134:1-3, Proverbs 17:9-11 Daily Verse: \u201cWhoever\u00a0covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter\u00a0separates close friends.\u201d Prov. 17:9 Discretion in love. Friendship requires the ability to forget. 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