{"id":482,"date":"2018-11-02T17:41:31","date_gmt":"2018-11-02T17:41:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=482"},"modified":"2019-12-10T08:43:35","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T13:43:35","slug":"ask-better-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2018\/11\/02\/ask-better-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Better Questions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong><sup class=\"versenum\">&#8220;<\/sup>Now I want you to know, brothers and sisters,\u00a0 that what has happened to me has actually served to advance the gospel&#8221;\u00a0 Philippians 1:12<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\nI have had so many conversations with people lately about why bad things happen to good people?\u00a0 Why does God allow it to happen?<br \/>\nThey are challenging conversations.\u00a0 Especially with some of the circumstances people are facing.\u00a0 I wonder it in my own life.\u00a0 It&#8217;s why I&#8217;m intently studying Job.\u00a0 I&#8217;m looking for answers to those questions.<br \/>\nI just realized, I&#8217;m asking the wrong questions.<br \/>\nGod promised us in John 16:33 we will have trouble in this world:<br \/>\n<em>\u201cI have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.\u00a0In this world you will have trouble.\u00a0But take heart! I have overcome\u00a0the world.\u201d<\/em><br \/>\nYet, as I&#8217;ve talked about before, we&#8217;re surprised when they do actually happen.\u00a0 I was surprised when Cody died.\u00a0 I wasn&#8217;t expecting it.\u00a0 Didn&#8217;t see it coming.\u00a0 Yet it happened.\u00a0 Gratefully, we had answers to a lot of our questions.\u00a0 More times than not, we don&#8217;t have answers.\u00a0 I think mainly because there are none this side of heaven.<br \/>\nI can absolutely tell you I did not ask these two questions:<br \/>\n<em><strong>&#8220;How is God going to use this to advance the gospel in and through me?&#8221; (Phil 1:12)<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>&#8220;How can I display Your great strength in my great weakness?&#8221; (2 Cor. 12:9-10)<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n(Taken from &#8220;Is God Trying to Ruin My Life?&#8221; by Martha Lawley)<br \/>\nThose are tough questions to ask.\u00a0 It is hard to take the focus off of ourselves.\u00a0 It&#8217;s hard to take the focus off of the circumstances.\u00a0 It is really hard to take our focus off of the pain.\u00a0 I find it incredibly difficult.<br \/>\nBut I&#8217;m going to try.\u00a0 I&#8217;m going to try asking these questions instead.\u00a0 I&#8217;m going to try and get my focus back on God, instead of myself.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to try.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Now I want you to know, brothers and sisters,\u00a0 that what has happened to me has actually served to advance the gospel&#8221;\u00a0 Philippians 1:12 I have had so many conversations with people lately about why bad things happen to good people?\u00a0 Why does God allow it to happen? They are challenging conversations.\u00a0 Especially with some&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2018\/11\/02\/ask-better-questions\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ask Better Questions<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=482"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/482\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1521,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/482\/revisions\/1521"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}