{"id":4075,"date":"2021-07-08T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-07-08T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=4075"},"modified":"2021-06-15T13:22:44","modified_gmt":"2021-06-15T18:22:44","slug":"why-breaking-promises-will-make-you-break-hearts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/07\/08\/why-breaking-promises-will-make-you-break-hearts\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Breaking Promises Will Make You Break Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>2 minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/7.8-873x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4076\" width=\"328\" height=\"385\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/7.8-873x1024.jpg 873w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/7.8-256x300.jpg 256w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/7.8-768x900.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/7.8-1310x1536.jpg 1310w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/7.8-1747x2048.jpg 1747w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 328px) 100vw, 328px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Daily Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Ecclesiastes+5-8&amp;version=GW\">Ecclesiastes 5-8 GW<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm%2073&amp;version=GW\">Psalms 73 GW<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Broken promises break hearts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Every love story that goes wrong often starts with a broken promise; someone didn\u2019t do what they said they would do.&nbsp; If we\u2019re sincere, we\u2019ve probably broken a promise before too.&nbsp; You\u2019re better off not making a promise than making one you won\u2019t keep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Often, the reason people make promises they never intend to keep is that it\u2019s easy.&nbsp; At the moment, you\u2019re fulfilling the other person\u2019s desire.&nbsp; But in the long run, you\u2019re building distrust in your relationships.&nbsp; Eventually, people won\u2019t believe your promises; your words will mean nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To become more like Jesus, we must learn to live up to our word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jesus didn\u2019t break His promises. Our love story with Jesus comes with promises He doesn\u2019t break. Seven promises Jesus made to us are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Life to the fullest <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2010%3A10&amp;version=GW\">John 10:10 GW<\/a><\/li><li>Acceptance <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John+6%3A37&amp;version=GW\">John 6:37 GW<\/a><\/li><li>Reward <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Mark%2010%3A29-31&amp;version=NIV\">Mark 10:29-31 GW<\/a><\/li><li>Revelation <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=john+14%3A21&amp;version=GW\">John 14:21 GW<\/a><\/li><li>Friendship <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2015:14&amp;version=GW\">John 15:14-15 GW<\/a><\/li><li>Joy <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2015:9-11&amp;version=NIV\">John 15:9-11 GW<\/a><\/li><li>Trials <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=John%2016%3A33&amp;version=GW\">John 16:33 GW<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Promise wisely.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jesus\u2019s promised wisely.&nbsp; He understood His purpose on earth and who His Father was.&nbsp; Jesus didn\u2019t make foolish promises; He made long-lasting vows that are still true today.&nbsp; Becoming more like Jesus means knowing which promises to make, which not to make.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Set proper expectations for yourself.&nbsp; Know what your limitations are.&nbsp; You are better off under-promising and over-delivering than going back on your word.&nbsp; Building trust takes time; breaking it can occur with one broken promise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In years gone by, all you needed was your word.&nbsp; Handshakes sealed deals instead of contracts.&nbsp; But over the past century, people\u2019s word has come to mean nothing.&nbsp; No one trusts anyone without some kind of binding agreement. So choose to become a person whose word means something.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you make a promise, keep it.\u00a0 If you know you\u2019re not capable of living up to your vow, don\u2019t make it.\u00a0 Know your limitations, don\u2019t overcommit.\u00a0 Become a person of integrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4819\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Three-Word-Prayers-Everyday-Living-ebook\/dp\/B09JT3B6CW\/ref=sr_1_2?crid=18UKNZFIIDIEA&amp;dchild=1&amp;keywords=three+word+prayers&amp;qid=1635775169&amp;sprefix=three+word+prayers%2Caps%2C69&amp;sr=8-2\">Check out my new release on Amazon<\/a>. Learn how I used prayer to control my emotions and develop healthier relationships in my life. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Lord, how grateful we are You keep Your promises.&nbsp; Forgive us for not keeping ours.&nbsp; Today, help us become people of integrity.&nbsp; Help us only make promises we can keep.&nbsp; Stop us from committing to actions we can\u2019t complete.&nbsp; Instead, help us set realistic expectations for ourselves and others.&nbsp; IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Question for reflection<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Have you broken any promises lately?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2 minute read. Daily Reading: Ecclesiastes 5-8 GW; Psalms 73 GW Broken promises break hearts. Every love story that goes wrong often starts with a broken promise; someone didn\u2019t do what they said they would do.&nbsp; If we\u2019re sincere, we\u2019ve probably broken a promise before too.&nbsp; You\u2019re better off not making a promise than making&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/07\/08\/why-breaking-promises-will-make-you-break-hearts\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Why Breaking Promises Will Make You Break Hearts<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4075","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4075"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4075\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4078,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4075\/revisions\/4078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}