{"id":4025,"date":"2021-06-29T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-06-29T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=4025"},"modified":"2021-06-07T07:28:40","modified_gmt":"2021-06-07T12:28:40","slug":"why-becoming-a-better-lover-of-god-and-people-will-make-you-grow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/06\/29\/why-becoming-a-better-lover-of-god-and-people-will-make-you-grow\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Becoming a Better Lover of God and People Will Make You Grow"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>2 minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/6.29-1024x692.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4026\" width=\"328\" height=\"222\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/6.29-1024x692.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/6.29-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/6.29-768x519.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/6.29-1536x1039.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/6.29-2048x1385.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 328px) 100vw, 328px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Daily Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=2+Kings+13-14&amp;version=GWcom\/passage\/?search=2+Kings+13-14&amp;version=GW\">2 Kings 13-14 GW<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Mark%2012&amp;version=GW\">Mark 12 GW<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Loving causes maturity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nothing on earth will grow you more than trying to love God and people.&nbsp; When God doesn\u2019t do what you think He should do, love isn\u2019t the first thought that comes to mind.&nbsp; Because God\u2019s ways are different from ours, understanding Him is impossible.&nbsp; Over and over again, God asks us to trust Him when nothing in our physical surroundings makes sense.&nbsp; Yet, the beginning of the Great Commandment is to love God wholly and completely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the second part of Jesus\u2019s command is for us to love others as ourselves.&nbsp; Others have no exclusions.&nbsp; God gives us no excuse for not loving the people He places in our lives.&nbsp; The family member whose life mission is to drive you crazy, the office mate who constantly annoys you, and the friend who betrayed you, all people God requires you to love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Love God, love others.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2021 is the twentieth anniversary of me adopting today\u2019s scriptures as my life verses.&nbsp; Shortly after my sister passed away from cancer, I began attending <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jccchurch.com\/\">JCCC<\/a> in Williamsburg, where I lived at the time.&nbsp; The pastor, Sam Goins, introduced me to this concept.&nbsp; He changed my life when he taught me this concept.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Through the past two decades, applying this mantra to my life has grown me more than anything else.&nbsp; The problematic people God brings into my life are the ones who grow me the most.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hard to love people draw me to God because the only way I can love them is through Him.&nbsp; In my humanity, loving others as myself is impossible.&nbsp; But with Him, God always shows me a way.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, the best way to love is from afar, with prayer.&nbsp; Other times, sitting with a mourning mother in silence is the best way to love.&nbsp; No two people are the same; therefore, we shouldn\u2019t love them the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love God first; as you do, He\u2019ll fill you with His love.\u00a0 Then, love others with what God gives you.\u00a0 Not on your own strength, but His. Without a doubt, you will grow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4819\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Three-Word-Prayers-Everyday-Living-ebook\/dp\/B09JT3B6CW\/ref=sr_1_2?crid=18UKNZFIIDIEA&amp;dchild=1&amp;keywords=three+word+prayers&amp;qid=1635775169&amp;sprefix=three+word+prayers%2Caps%2C69&amp;sr=8-2\">Check out my new release on Amazon<\/a>. Learn how I used prayer to control my emotions and develop healthier relationships in my life. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Lord, You are amazing.&nbsp; Your command is simple to say yet hard to live.&nbsp; Forgive us for not loving You completely or our neighbors as ourselves.&nbsp; Today, our prayer is simple.&nbsp; Help us love better today than we did yesterday.&nbsp; IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Question for reflection<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Who do you need God\u2019s help loving today?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2 minute read. Daily Reading: 2 Kings 13-14 GW; Mark 12 GW Loving causes maturity. Nothing on earth will grow you more than trying to love God and people.&nbsp; When God doesn\u2019t do what you think He should do, love isn\u2019t the first thought that comes to mind.&nbsp; Because God\u2019s ways are different from ours,&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/06\/29\/why-becoming-a-better-lover-of-god-and-people-will-make-you-grow\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Why Becoming a Better Lover of God and People Will Make You Grow<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4025","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4025","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4025"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4025\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4027,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4025\/revisions\/4027"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4025"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4025"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4025"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}