{"id":3802,"date":"2021-05-17T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-05-17T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=3802"},"modified":"2021-04-29T12:29:19","modified_gmt":"2021-04-29T17:29:19","slug":"how-accurate-words-will-make-your-accusers-ashamed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/05\/17\/how-accurate-words-will-make-your-accusers-ashamed\/","title":{"rendered":"How Accurate Words Will Make Your Accusers Ashamed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2 minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5.17-1024x902.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3803\" width=\"333\" height=\"292\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5.17-1024x902.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5.17-300x264.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5.17-1536x1353.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5.17-2048x1804.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 333px) 100vw, 333px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Daily Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1%20Samuel%2013-14&amp;version=NIV\">1 Samuel 13-14 GW<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Titus%202&amp;version=GW\">Titus 2 GW<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Truth does matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the world today, I often hear this phrase, \u201cLive in your truth.\u201d&nbsp; But as my therapist says, three truths exist\u2014your truth, my truth, and what actually happened.&nbsp; God helps ground us in the third truth, reality.&nbsp; We all share one fact in common:&nbsp; we\u2019re sinners in need of a Savior.&nbsp; We all need Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recognizing your need for a Savior means understanding; you\u2019re part of the problem.&nbsp; When I\u2019m working on a relationship, God has plenty to teach me.&nbsp; The people God places in my life that are the hardest for me to love grow me the most.&nbsp; And the best way to love people is by living in the truth of God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Accept responsibility.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To use accurate words, you must admit your part in the situation.&nbsp; No one is ever entirely right or wrong.&nbsp; Telling the real truth means saying what actually happened.&nbsp; If you started yelling and wouldn\u2019t listen to what the other person was saying, own it.&nbsp; Admit you were wrong.&nbsp; If you didn\u2019t communicate well, learn from the lesson, try better next time.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Accurate words require brutal honesty, not only with others but yourself.&nbsp; Jesus helps us accept our imperfections.&nbsp; He loves each one of us, no matter what.&nbsp; When we are weak, He is strong.&nbsp; You can tell the truth and accept responsibility for your actions because Jesus loves you just the way you are.&nbsp; Don\u2019t doubt that fact for a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Telling the real truth makes your accusers ashamed.&nbsp; Facing the mirror of reality isn\u2019t easy for anyone.&nbsp; Grace is something we all need.&nbsp; Remember, sometimes we\u2019re the accusers.&nbsp; When we\u2019ve believed the wrong narrative, shame rears its ugly head.&nbsp; Accepting our sinful nature allows us to give grace not only to others but to ourselves as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4819\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Three-Word-Prayers-Everyday-Living-ebook\/dp\/B09JT3B6CW\/ref=sr_1_2?crid=18UKNZFIIDIEA&amp;dchild=1&amp;keywords=three+word+prayers&amp;qid=1635775169&amp;sprefix=three+word+prayers%2Caps%2C69&amp;sr=8-2\">Check out my new release on Amazon<\/a>. Learn how I used prayer to control my emotions and develop healthier relationships in my life. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lord, thank You for helping us accept ourselves, and in so doing, tell the absolute truth.&nbsp; Forgive us for acting like someone we\u2019re not and for believing false narratives.&nbsp; In all we do today, let honesty lead the way. &nbsp; Help us use accurate words at all times, and when the accuser realizes the truth, let us give them grace.&nbsp; Praise Jesus; Your truth is absolute.&nbsp; We can count on the Rock to stand firm amidst the lies.&nbsp; IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Question for reflection<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">How accurate are your words?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2 minute read. Daily Reading: 1 Samuel 13-14 GW; Titus 2 GW Truth does matter. In the world today, I often hear this phrase, \u201cLive in your truth.\u201d&nbsp; But as my therapist says, three truths exist\u2014your truth, my truth, and what actually happened.&nbsp; God helps ground us in the third truth, reality.&nbsp; We all share&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/05\/17\/how-accurate-words-will-make-your-accusers-ashamed\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How Accurate Words Will Make Your Accusers Ashamed<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3802","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3802","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3802"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3802\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3806,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3802\/revisions\/3806"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3802"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3802"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3802"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}