{"id":3609,"date":"2021-04-13T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-13T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=3609"},"modified":"2021-03-30T08:59:55","modified_gmt":"2021-03-30T13:59:55","slug":"how-a-short-temper-will-make-you-stupid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/04\/13\/how-a-short-temper-will-make-you-stupid\/","title":{"rendered":"How a Short Temper Will Make You Stupid"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>2 minute read.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Screenshot-2.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3610\" width=\"339\" height=\"255\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Screenshot-2.png 684w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Screenshot-2-300x226.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Daily Reading: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Deut+29%3A1-Deut+30%3A20&amp;version=GW\">Deuteronomy 29-30 GW<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Proverbs%2014&amp;version=GW\">Proverbs 14 GW<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Short tempers breed stupidity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Flying off the handle over a situation has consequences.&nbsp; Anger is a violent emotion, often compared to an erupting volcano.&nbsp; The surge of emotions comes quickly from deep within the soul. &nbsp; Words become molten lava, pouring from our mouths with no forethought.&nbsp; In an instant, damage occurs that can take years to repair, if ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Take it from someone who knows; short tempers cause nothing but trouble.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At 52 years old, I\u2019ve worked relentlessly on my anger issues.&nbsp; They stem from my father\u2019s death at 16.&nbsp; Anger is how you dealt with things in my childhood home; a go-to emotion we all knew well.&nbsp; Over the years, I\u2019ve gotten myself in more trouble with my temper than any other way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But then God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>God\u2019s spirit within me calms the storm.\u00a0 Through Him, I find patience.\u00a0 If I\u2019m facing a situation that I know will infuriate me, I pray.\u00a0 Asking God for extra grace is a common prayer I utter.\u00a0 Seeking God helps me lose my attitude and gain His.\u00a0 Great understanding comes when we place our trust in Jesus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>More of God, less of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One way to avoid stupidity is to ask God for more of Him, less of you.&nbsp; Acknowledge that without Him, your emotions can get the best of you.&nbsp; But with God, He will give you what you need to temper your responses.&nbsp; Instead of flying off of the handle, you can become a person of great understanding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seek God first in all things.&nbsp; When faced with a situation that angers you, ask God to take control of your mouth AND your emotions.&nbsp; Trust Him in the moment.&nbsp; Watch as God uses the opportunity for His glory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4819\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/bookcover-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Three-Word-Prayers-Everyday-Living-ebook\/dp\/B09JT3B6CW\/ref=sr_1_2?crid=18UKNZFIIDIEA&amp;dchild=1&amp;keywords=three+word+prayers&amp;qid=1635775169&amp;sprefix=three+word+prayers%2Caps%2C69&amp;sr=8-2\">Check out my new release on Amazon<\/a>. Learn how I used prayer to control my emotions and develop healthier relationships in my life. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Lord God, how grateful we are for you.&nbsp; You are long-suffering for us.&nbsp; Each day, you wait patiently for us to turn to You.&nbsp; Some days we do, some days we don\u2019t.&nbsp; Forgive us for the times we turn from you, relying on our strength instead of Yours.&nbsp; Today, let us seek You.&nbsp; Whatever situation we\u2019re facing, fill us with Your spirit.&nbsp; Give us Your grace, Your mercy, Your strength\u2014more of You, less of us.&nbsp; With You, we can become people of great understanding and patience.&nbsp; IJNIP. Amen<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>Question for reflection<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">When has a short fuse made you stupid?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2 minute read. Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 29-30 GW; Proverbs 14 GW Short tempers breed stupidity. Flying off the handle over a situation has consequences.&nbsp; Anger is a violent emotion, often compared to an erupting volcano.&nbsp; The surge of emotions comes quickly from deep within the soul. &nbsp; Words become molten lava, pouring from our mouths&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2021\/04\/13\/how-a-short-temper-will-make-you-stupid\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How a Short Temper Will Make You Stupid<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3609","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3609"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3609\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3614,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3609\/revisions\/3614"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}