{"id":277,"date":"2018-02-13T16:38:59","date_gmt":"2018-02-13T16:38:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shop.honestreflections.net\/?p=277"},"modified":"2019-12-10T08:44:11","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T13:44:11","slug":"one-of-my-best-valentines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/2018\/02\/13\/one-of-my-best-valentines\/","title":{"rendered":"One of My Best Valentine's"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ”\u00a0 1 Corinthians 13:4-5<\/strong><\/em>
\nWhen one thinks of Valentine’s day, they think of love.\u00a0 Typically the love shared between man and woman.\u00a0 The dozen roses, the chocolates, the cards filled with poetry.\u00a0 I am grateful God brought me someone to share the romantic side of Valentine’s Day, absolutely.\u00a0 However one of my favorite Valentine’s Day has nothing to do with that kind of love.
\nI was single for over 40 years of my life.\u00a0 I’ve had many more Valentine’s Day alone than sharing with someone special.\u00a0 I used to dread it as the day approached.\u00a0 I’d hear the platitudes, “It’s just a day Hallmark uses to sell cards.”\u00a0 “Trust me honey, you’re better off alone than with someone who doesn’t treat you well.”\u00a0 You get the gist.
\nLooking back though, I realize, I did have the perfect Valentine those years I was alone.\u00a0 It was my Mom.
\nMy Mom loved Valentine’s day.\u00a0 She would always send cards to all of her kids.\u00a0 She sent them to family and friends.\u00a0 There were Valentine’s decorations around her house.\u00a0 I was always guaranteed to get some type of Valentine’s present, usually some chocolates.\u00a0 In later years, it was flowers.\u00a0 I always took it for granted, as we tend to do.
\nOur last Valentine’s day together was four years ago.\u00a0 It was her last lucid evening before she passed.\u00a0 I’ll never forget it.\u00a0 She was in her hospital bed in her bedroom at her home.\u00a0 She was weak, had lost a lot of weight due to cancer.\u00a0 She had just become bedridden a few days before.\u00a0 My husband was with me, as well as some close friends.\u00a0 I brought her a Bloomin’ Onion from Outback.\u00a0 It was always one of her favorite foods.
\nI remember spending the evening around her bed with her.\u00a0 Surrounded by people I love.\u00a0 I didn’t know at the time it would be the last time I would have a conversation with her.\u00a0 I had no idea in less than 36 hours she would be in the arms of Jesus.\u00a0 I just knew I was with her.
\nI knew I was honoring her.\u00a0 I knew she was exactly where she wanted be, doing exactly what she wanted to do.\u00a0 When I think of my mother’s life, I always think of how she lived it.
\nShe lived it the way she wanted too.\u00a0 She did what she wanted to do.\u00a0 When she made a mistake she accepted responsibility for it and moved on to the next thing.\u00a0 She never let life get her down.\u00a0 When Dad died leaving her with three teenagers, she kept going.\u00a0 When I was less than a stellar daughter, she kept loving and praying me through it.\u00a0 My brothers tested her too. She just kept going.\u00a0 She held her head up high and kept going.
\nI’m grateful for her.\u00a0 When she passed, she died the way she wanted too, at home, in her bed.\u00a0 She is one of the few people I can honestly say, she lived the way she wanted to and died the way she wanted to.
\nThere will never be another Valentine’s Day I don’t think of the last one I spent with her.\u00a0 It was truly an evening of love.
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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ”\u00a0 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 When one thinks of Valentine’s day, they think of love.\u00a0 Typically the love… Continue reading One of My Best Valentine's<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=277"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/277\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1566,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/277\/revisions\/1566"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.honestreflections.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}